”I Like Him A Lot! The Power of Chaste Women.”

We’ve all seen it, a woman who likes a man and throws herself at him. The mere sight of him she looses all dignity, goes into a trance, and transforms into this overly flirtatious, persuasive, woman. After she switches over to him, she softly whispers in his ear, all of the things that he would like to hear. Her demeanor, by no means is not new. Its how Delilah was able to be used to assist Samson to get out of the will of God and into more sin! You’ve all heard it, “Use what you got, to get what you want.” Somewhere down the line this term has become the prime behavior among “Christian” women. Romans 12:2 begins by saying, “Do not confirm to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of our mind…” I submit to you that many of us still have these behaviors because we have simply not renewed our mind in this area. We get saved, but it takes work to remove our old worldly mentalities and to replace them with Godly ones.

R Kelly has a song entitled, “I’m a flirt.” This song describes flirtatious women to a tee! These women can share stories of flirting with men on everywhere they go. Girls as young as 15 years old are well versed in “flirting.” Flirting so skillfully, having men buying them things. Now, for the record they might not have sex with these men. However, they know how to communicate with men to get what they want.

After becoming born again; do the flirty behavior instantly disappear? Or course not! However, as you grow in the word of God by renewing your mind you will realized that this behavior is not acceptable for a PROVERBS 31 WOMEN! This woman FEARS THE LORD, is of noble character, and is CLOTHED WITH STRENGTH AND DIGNITY. I would go even further to say that this woman was “CHASTE.” Let’s take a look at the definition of Chaste according to Webster:

1 : innocent of unlawful sexual intercourse
2 : celibate
3 : pure in thought and act : modest
4 : severely simple in design or execution : austere b : clean, spotless

The chaste woman isn’t OVER THE TOP! As I like to say she doesn’t act “EXTRA.” Sure she may like a man, and that’s fine! Attraction is normal and there is nothing wrong with it, but a chaste woman KNOWS WHO SHE IS, AND KNOWS THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO THROW HERSELF at any man. She’s sure of herself, the God in her, and her worth. The chaste woman DOESN'T TALK EXTRA LOUD TO GET ATTENTION, and her motives are PURE. If she likes someone and wants to get to know him she’s pure about it. She’s not trying to get something from him. She doesn’t provoke him unto LUST with her suggestive glances, whispers, and clothing. Yet she is so confident that her presence commands ‘POSITIVE’ attention and RESPECT. The chaste woman knows she is “WORTH THE WAIT,” and EXEMPLIFIES that by keeping herself sexually pure.

“Whatever you give out is pretty much what you will get back…” LADIES , if you are constantly being treated like TRASH by men, maybe you should check out what you are putting out.”

It’s ok, and natural to be interested in someone! Try the CHASTE ROUTE this time! It DOES HAVE its advantages! You will be honoring God in the process, you will BE RESPECTING YOURSELF, and you will ULTIMATELY HAVE A GREATER CHANCE OF ATTRACTING THE RIGHT PERSON OR MR. BOAZ SHALL I SAY. LOL GOD BLESS!

HEAVEN IS THE FINISH LINE! DON'T GIVE UP UNTIL YOU FINISH THE RACE. LET NOTHING STOP YOU. EVEN IF YOU GET TIRED, REST BUT DON'T QUIT! KEEP PRESSING ON!!!

"CHANGE THE COLOR OF YOUR PAINT."

HAVE YOU BEEN FEELING EXTREMELY BORED WITH THE MONOTONY OF LIFE? MAYBE NOTHING DIFFERENT OR EXCITING EVER REALLY HAPPENS? EVERYDAY SEEMS TO BE THE SAME AS THE PREVIOUS ONE?

SINCE THINGS ARE WHAT THEY ARE, AND WISHING ABOUT THINGS WON'T CHANGE THEM ONE BIT. WHAT CAN YOU DO TO MAKE THINGS DIFFERENT?

MAYBE YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE. LIKE MAYBE LOOK AT THINGS IN A DIFFERENT LIGHT. FOR INSTANCE, YOU COULD VIEW EVERY NEW DAY AS A BLANK NEW CANVAS. NICE AND PLAIN JUST WAITING FOR YOU THE ARTIST TO EXPRESS YOURSELF. LOOKS LIKE TO ME YOU ARE IN CHARGE.

YOU COULD PAINT WITH THE SAME OLE BORING, MELONCOLONY COLORS OR YOU CAN ADAPT AND CHANGE. UPDATE A BIT! EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT CHANGING THE COLOR OF SOMETHING CAN MAKE THINGS LOOK BRAND NEW.

EVER HAD A ROOM THAT YOU WAS BORED WITH? MAYBE YOU THOUGHT THAT IT NEEDED A COMPLETELY NEW MAKE OVER, BUT TO YOUR SURPRISE ALL IT NEEDED WAS JUST A FRESH COAT OF PAINT IN A DASHING NEW COLOR. WOW, AND YES IT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD.

SEE YOURSELF AS THE ARTIST, AND WITH EVERY NEW DAY AS A BRAND NEW CANVAS FROM GOD. GOD HAS GIVEN US ALL THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME AND SPACE. SOME OF US CHOOSE TO NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES TO PAINT OUR LIFES'S EXCITING, AND SOME OF US PAINT BORING OR HELPLESS LIFES. REMEMBER, WE ALL HAVE CHOICES. WE CAN LAY DOWN AND LET LIFE SIFT THE LIFE OUT OF US, OR WE CAN CHOOSE TO USE VIBRANT COLORS TO COVER UP DISAPPOINTMENTS, SETBACKS OR FAILURES. NO BODY'S LIFE IS PERFECT. IT IS HOW YOU CHOOSE TO HANDLE IT.

SO IF EVERYTHING IN LIFE SEEMS TO BE RUNNING TOGETHER, AND YOU CAN'T TELL ONE DAY FROM THE NEXT; JUST SET ASIDE SOME TIME AND PLAN HOW YOU CAN MAKE SOME CHANGES. WRITE DOWN SOME EXCITING THINGS THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAPPEN IN YOUR LIFE FOR EXAMPLE: DO A DINNER PARTY, OR INSTEAD OF GOING OUT TO EAT AFTER CHURCH ON SUNDAYS, WHY DON'T YOU GRAB A COUPLE OF BLANKETS, BALLS AND PACK A PICNIC AND ENJOY THE DAY OUTDOORS AT THE PARK? YOU CAN SCHEDULE BIKE RIDING FOR THE FAMILY, A COOKING CLASS FOR ONE OF YOUR YOUNGEST OR EVEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE CAN PLAN A HOT DATE.

OUR CHILDREN HAVE SUCH VIVID IMAGINATIONS. IF YOU WATCH THEM PLAY PRETEND THEY WILL IMAGINE ANYTHING TO BECOME SOMETHING GREAT. WE AS ADULTS HAVE LOTS OUR CREATIVE IMAGINATIONS. LET'S USE OUR GOD GIVEN CREATIVITY TO SPRUCE UP OUR LIFES. EVERYBODY THAT IS LIVING HAS A CANVAS. WHAT COLOR WILL YOU PAINT WITH TODAY?

I CHALLENGE YOU TO TRY! WRITE DOWN 20 EXCITING THINGS THAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO DO. LIKE GAME NIGHT WITH THE FAMILY. YOU HAVE TO HAVE GAME NIGHT FOOD, LIKE CHIPS AND DIP OR MOVIE NIGHT. WHAT ABOUT BOWLING? OR RIDE OUT TO THE BEACH AND HAVE A PICNIC? WHAT ABOUT VISITING A RELATIVES OUT OF TOWN? YOU WILL ENJOY THE RIDE AND ALSO THEIR COMPANY. DON'T GET TOO PARTICULAR HOW WELL EVERYTHING GOES, BECAUSE REMEMBER IT'S JUST PAINT!

TELL ME HOW IT GOES!

GOD BLESS YOU!